Happy Holidays from the Keims!

The fall and holiday season is a family favorite! I love all things pumpkin spice and cozy while Shawn and Avery love all things Halloween. All three of us love everything Christmas! We certainly never thought we'd be celebrating our second Christmas while still in the waiting period. Whether they publish it or not, every couple that is waiting to adopt has little milestones - that day of the month that marks another month of waiting, Mother's Day, Father's Day, a special vacation you imagined you'd be bringing your baby along for, and the holidays. For this reason there are lots of articles with ideas on how to survive the wait during the holidays. I read a few of them but I didn't really feel like they applied to us. We know we are incredibly lucky that we have Avery and that helps keep us positive - we love experiencing the magic of the holidays through her eyes. We are hopeful that next year will be the year we are celebrating with Avery AND her baby brother or sister.

Avery had a big part in decorating this year.
We've had lots of adventures since my post last month - we've gotten back into running and walking in a big way! I hadn't run since August when I got a steal on a pair of new sneakers, went for a 3 mile run and got giant blisters on both heels that took over a month to heal. We've had a little friendly competition with my mom and my sister-in-law, Jill, on Map My Run. Our favorite place to run and walk is on the Big Creek Greenway. They have a boardwalk through the forest and swamps and it's been so refreshing to get outside and in nature. Avery has been with us every step of the way and she runs between Shawn and I so she probably doubles our milage. So far, for December, we are over 50 miles and hoping to get in 60 before the end of the year.
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Our favorite trail. |
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Hiking around Lake Lanier. |
We definitely miss our families at the holidays so we are especially grateful to have friends who are like family right here in Georgia. We had a plentiful Thanksgiving dinner with about 30 friends and then we took off to Memphis for the weekend. We went to Shiloh Battlefield as an early birthday present for Shawn and then we spent the rest of the weekend in Memphis. We went to the Lorraine Motel, where Martin Luther King, Jr. was killed, Beale Street, Sun Studios, Graceland, and the biggest Bass Pro Shops in a pyramid. It was a fun little road trip.
We have also enjoyed driving around looking at Christmas lights, the lights at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens, watching Elf, and baking and decorating more cookies than we can ever eat. Tonight we plan to eat snack foods, watch A Christmas Story, and get to bed early so that Santa can come.

If you are friends with us on Facebook or have followed our journey for a while, you've probably seen Christmas Bear in our holiday photos. Some people have mentioned how freaky it is or that the kids are probably terrified by it. Here's the story of Christmas Bear: My mom has made no secret of the fact that she hates inflatables! One year after Christmas we saw this particular inflatable clearanced to 75% off so Shawn thought it would be fitting to send it to my mom as a joke for her February birthday. My mom promptly mailed Christmas Bear back to us and couldn't believe we had actually bought it and paid postage to send it to her. So, Shawn being Shawn, said ok, "We love Christmas, we're keeping it!" We have set it up every year and it has become a silly little tradition that we write where we are for Christmas that year and everyone who is together signs it. What started out as a joke has become kind of special to us and we love seeing where we were each year, who was together, and it jogs some memories as to what was happening in our life. That first year was 2007 - we were in the midst of fertility treatments and couldn't be too far from the hospital and my mom and dad came down to Charlotte for Christmas. 2008 - Just Shawn and I on Christmas morning but we flew out to my brother, Justin's, in Oregon later that day. Baby Maverick was just 6 weeks old so we got some first hand baby experiences with him. We were also in the process of signing on with Adoption Network Law Center because I remember using their computer to send some pictures to our adoption advisor. We were in Freedom, NY for 2009 and we were celebrating our first Christmas with Avery, our first Christmas as parents! We were in NY again for 2010 but at my sister, Katie's. 2011 - we were home, in Charlotte, for Christmas day and then went to Florida - where it was freezing! 2012 - back to Freedom. 2013 - in Georgia. 2014 - Freedom, NY. I'm not sure of the life span of inflatables but let's just say Christmas Bear is aging. He has a leak somewhere and isn't as robust as he used to be. I mentioned this to my mom, you know, the one who hates inflatables, and she said, "Oh you can't get rid of him! Can't you cut out the writing and put it on a quilt or something?!" So there you have it...a silly, precious tradition.
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Friends helped us celebrate our first Christmas in Georgia. |
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Christmas with cousins in 2014. |
Once again, there's not too much new on the adoption front. Our paper profile is currently in the hands of three expectant moms. Each of these ladies will have to make a choice. They might choose to parent or choose to make an adoption plan. We hope if they choose to make an adoption plan that one of these ladies will choose us. Our agency tracks the number of views on our online profile each month but that's not really an indicator of anything. We hope it is expectant mothers looking at our profile but it could also be other prospective adoptive couples, family members, basically anyone. Really the only important number is 1 - we just need one expectant mom to see something in us that she thinks might be worth pursuing, just one who wants to begin building a relationship with us. We hope she will see the love and stability we have to offer her child.
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We have been loving 70 degree days in December...and I still don't know where to look when taking a selfie. :-) |
We are thankful every day for the choice Avery's birthmother made and we tell her that often. She and I text often and just this week she was telling me that she had mailed Avery a gift and then she added, "I'm so grateful she has you!" We in no way feel like we deserve Avery but we are ever so thankful and honored that she chose us. We look forward to building another unique relationship like that with the expectant mom who chooses us for this adoption.
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After having her face professionally painted twice in one day, Avery had new career aspirations. |
I've done pretty good at not buying anything else for the baby until we are chosen. We have everything we need to be ready to go at a moment's notice but when I saw this canvas in a local boutique, I knew it belonged in our nursery.
Thanks you friends for your continued support in 2015! Please continue to share our story and keep us in mind if you ever hear of someone considering adoption.